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2010: The future is now!

January 8th, 2010 1 comment

Ah, 2010. A year that should have been filled with jetpacks and robotic butlers, but which will instead be populated with the un- and underemployed and tea baggers. What can you do? I choose to buy records and go dancing.

2009 was not a great year for me. I don’t have very high hopes for 2010, but I do plan on increasing my batting average when it comes to accomplishing goals.

So, without further ado, my personal goals for 2010:

  1. Run at least once a week. I failed at the “250 lbs” goal last year, so I’m changing it to this. I’ve been running three or four times a week since I recovered from my Achilles injury, but the bare minimum is one time a week. There’s no real good reason for me to go for weeks without exercise. Of course, once I run once in a week the second time almost takes care of itself. Getting exercise and eating right, and let’s be honest not over indulging in the vino, are really important for my mental and physical well being.
  2. Start a new band. My punk band is going along ok, but I really would like to meet some folks who enjoy playing music as much as I do. I’d rather be playing music than doing almost anything else on any given night of the week. Playing once a week for 2 hours is kind of a tease. I need to work on my shyness and get the courage to put myself out there. This goal replaces my unfinished “play at an open mic” goal.
  3. Get published by a (non-technical) commercial publication. This is another carryover. I consider myself first and foremost a writer, but I do almost no writing. That needs to change. So far, my only time being published was in a developer magazine.
  4. Make at least one complete video or animation. I feel comfortable with my ability to make music at this point, but I don’t know the slightest thing about video, synching with music, or anything like that. That excites me.
  5. Stay in touch with family. I’ve never been a big family man. As I get older, I realize that I’m wasting an incredibly valuable resource. My dad is a great thinker and writer who always has great advice. My uncle is my inspiration; living proof that you can do whatever you want as long as you don’t let other people set artificial limits on you. My brother is a really great R&B producer with a tender heart and lots of cute kids. He continued to reach out to me, even when I failed to reach back several times. Why would I not want to be in contact with these wonderful people who also just happen to love me? This is something I need to really work on.
  6. Speak clearly and articulately. I’m a mumbler who talks fast when he gets excited. That’s a bad combination. I’ve started to realize more and more that no one really understands what I’m saying. Rather than make excuses or get frustrated with other people, I’m going to work on improving myself. That means speaking in a clear manner, in full sentences and with a confident voice. It also means taming the motormouth!
  7. Get a job. It’s getting ridiculous at this point. My grandmother Nancy would have disowned me long ago. I need to be gainfully employed forthwith!

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“The Snow Is Also” by David Hoadley

January 8th, 2010 1 comment

 

Sarah’s Dad is a renaissance man. He read my little winter poem and responded in the comments:

 

The Snow Is Also

The snow is also blanket to the seed,

out of sight but waiting to be born.

As is the name upon a stone,

no longer close but never far,

beneath the snow,

in each of us.

 

I took the liberty of titling it. Goals shortly.

By the way, David is also a painter. He painted the painting on the right behind him in this photo.

 

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Spooky painting, I know.

He’s also one of the fathers of storm chasing. I’m serious. He even founded the first storm chasing magazine Storm Track. This is just a random sick drawing from the magazine.

 

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He also took a photograph that was used for a stamp.

 

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I could go on, but I won’t because I’m a little jealous. I think I need to make him a Wikipedia page.

Hey pickabar readers, what are you doing for New Year’s Eve?

December 29th, 2009 No comments

 

You should come and hear me spin reggae, soul, punk and whatever else I feel like at Second Chance.

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Yes, this is just an excuse for me to show off my new Flash skills.

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Hardcore is not as frightening as it used to be

March 5th, 2009 No comments

 

I have too many talented friends. Seriously. Turns out my friend Milo (record nerd of the highest level, former rock singer, CBGB bouncer and generally misanthropic guy*) is also a sick writer. I read his blog post “Hardcore is not as frightening as it used to be” without knowing who the author was and loved it. He really captures the thoughts I had after my last trip to a hardcore show. The kids were all very calm and well behaved. I was very tempted to start jumping around and yelling in their faces, but I thought it might come off like Wilford Brimley talking about the old days. Back in the day, going to a hardcore show meant you might go home with a black eye! Now a days you’re more likely to get mascara smudged on you. Now I’m not trying to glorify the neanderthal “Hulk Smash” attitude that sort of pervaded hardcore as jocks and hip hoppers got involved. Trying to be a tough guy while dancing is pretty silly. On the other hand, there’s something refreshingly cathartic about a group of young people group venting and jumping around while shouting along to a good punk rock tune. Oh well, times change. CBGB –> Varvatos.

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I’m not kidding, if you’re the easily offended type his is not the blog for you. It’s called Dissecting the Fetal Pig. You’ve been warned.


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Lisa Uhlig “Gerrard 2008”

February 2nd, 2009 No comments

Having talented friends is the type of good fortune that can’t be bought or earned. All you can really do is to count your blessings and try to enjoy the wonderful opportunities that inevitably come your way. Lisa Uhlig is one of my closest friends and she also happens to be a great artist. I’ve had the wonderful pleasure of watching her skills and her confidence in her talent grow dramatically over the last few years right in front of me.


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Lisa’s been working very hard on a  piece for a show at an art space in Bushwick called Division of Human Works. The show was titled “Gentle Now: An Examination of Safety and Balance” and it concerned the relationship between safety and freedom. However, Lisa has been very coy about the actual subject of her piece for the show. I’m unbelievably flattered, honored and humbled that she chose to make your host here in pickabarland the subject of her work. Maybe my jiggly belly will make it into an art history book some day!


Lisa's Painting Of Me

The painting is based on a photo that was taken at Long Beach over the summer on a Monday afternoon. The beach wasn’t very crowded and the five of us (Lisa, Pete, Dave and Amanda) had an amazingly relaxing and invigorating time. The wind was gusting strongly and I raised my arms to let my towel flap in the wind. For a small slice of time it really felt like the wind had blown away all of my cares and I was about to float into the sky. For that one moment concerns about social acceptance, body issues, worries about financial success and all of the other noise that hums along in the background of my thoughts was silenced.

I’m a blogger, I sing in a punk band and I’m a social networking junkie. I’m very much in touch with my own narcissistic tendencies. This is something more than petty narcissism though; I’m overflowing with genuine pride at being associated with something that I consider a truly beautiful work of art. A wonderful moment in my life, a moment that I’d already begun to forget, is now a tangible object.

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All of my other talented friends are now on notice!

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Some people are so talented it makes you a little sick…

January 19th, 2009 No comments

I know a guy named Tim who is a great musician. I’ve never seen him go without making music for more than fifteen minutes. He taught me to play the Ukulele by shoving it in my hands and telling me to play it. He’s also a pretty darn good artist.


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Some people make it really hard to find excuses to be lazy, don’t they? I need to go practice!


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Friend Stalking: Viki

December 6th, 2008 No comments

My friend Viki was in Time Magazine last March. She didn’t tell me or anything, I’m just a googlestalker in my free time. Uh…make believe I didn’t write that.


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